Understanding women is a hard nut to crack and on top of that when she has grown in age explored the feeling and emotions more compared to you. The whole situation gets intense. An older woman conducts her feelings strongly but it could be intriguing for you to realize.
It is a good idea to educate yourself on how do older women flirt as you will not be misled by any assumption. It is common for people to identify the signs not clearly and get confused about how to deal with the situation.
Signs an older woman wants you
Let us try and understand what are possible signs you could get from an older woman who is attracted to you. We need to read her body language, gestures to find out how truly she is interested, and a few tips on what to do next.
So without further ado, let’s learn signs about how older women show attraction
1. She Gives You a Subtle or Strong look
Depending on her basic nature a shy woman may look at you and blush, on the other hand, a woman with a strong persona may maintain the firm stair which is strong enough to penetrate your eyes to reach your heart. Both are signs of flirting and be sure that if she is maintaining a longer/shorter eye contact with you she is into you.
A woman will not look at you bashfully or deeply into your eyes if she is not interested in you. Yet the idea of approaching a young man is intimidating so maybe she will take her own sweet time to judge your feeling too.
2. Hot cougar fixes her hair times and again
Women at any age are conscious of their looks especially in front of a guy she hitting on. If she touches her hair around you it is a clear sign that she is seeking your attraction. It could be her conscious or unconscious way to seduce the man she likes. Fixing her hair also depicts that she wants to look picture perfect around you.
Maybe she will show a loud sign like tying hair in a pony or bun and expose her neck (conscious gesture) or just an elusive sign like running fingers through tresses (unconscious gesture).
3. You experience often & unusual touches from her
Touching as a sign of flirting is “quite loud to observe” and you will not find it difficult to notice. Just recall some of your own old experiences where you tried to flirt and touch your crush on her cheek or shoulder to rub off something which was not there. What you were trying to do was seek their attention and try to get close to her, right?
Older women keep on giving you subtle physical intimacy hints. She may set your color, brushing her fingers on your shoulder or touching the inner arm. In comparison to a young girl, she will break the intimate ‘touch barrier’ in a more mature way.
Note: The way how older women flirt is way different from younger ones so, you may not get a tight direct hug but some more content physical touches.
4. She takes a strangely long time to reply back Text Messages
Now we are not talking about hours of a gap to reply back, in that case, lose hope here and start hunting somewhere else. But if it is flashing on your screen your lady is Typing….. Typing….. Typing and then you get a small well-formed message. She is taking time to create the message perfectly and it is a strong sign that she is into you.
Now you can try keeping track while chatting with this old woman to see if she really takes all the time to write the well-scripted message to show her feelings. Another way to know if she wants you is to consider the timing of her messages.
Early morning and midnight flirty messages are surely more than flirt and kind of search of bed buddy.
5. She overloads you with compliments
Finally, a steadfast sign that proves she is looking for your attention. When an old woman showers you with compliments for almost everything you do. Once in a while, if you get a compliment for some achievement or effort is fine but if she keeps on admiring you on common things like – You are a smart guy, good choice, I find you interesting, I like the way you handle it.
Elder women are always sincerer with their salutations because they are picky about the person and time they invest in. If you try a little hard to see through the compliments she gave you displays her clear signs that she likes you. AND WHAT SHE LIKES IN YOU!
6. This woman shares dirty jokes with you
As many women showcase their emotional intimacy with deep long conversations, a mature bold woman will be comfortable sharing sex talks or jokes with you. It’s a sign that she finds you mature and comfortable taking a step ahead. You can reply back with some similar joke or play cool to see if she may attempt with another stronger sign of flirt.
Be clear in mind if she shoots such a joke in a group not necessarily you are the only targeted, man. Yes, if you both alone have a “dirty talk moment” and you also like this woman it is a good time to shoot your shot.
7. She shows intense interest in your personal life.
Her extended life experiences have made her very sure about what she wants from life and especially from her future date (you). She may keep inquiring about your family members, what kind of bond you share with all of them. Your hobbies, preferences, favorite places to visit, weekend plan.
Along with above mentioned general questions, an older woman may extend to ask you some more intense questions like your view on some female celebrities or any empowered women. Here she trying to understand your viewpoint on women with power.
If she shows this sign her intention is not just to flirt but she is looking at you as a long-term partner.
Note: Pay attention if she announces she is single in front of you or shares stories about her bad married life is also a prominent sign she wants you. Or even if she plays secretively about her married life or family background.
8. She brings up commitment & marriage conversation too often
If she kept her “single ready to mingle status” open in front of you additional you both indulge in conversation like true commitments and value of marriage. Especially she brings it topic repeatedly it is sure she has you in mind in her future and trying to give you signs and analysis your opinion as well at the same time.
Marriage is a serious topic and you must respond to it only if you are truly interested in her, older women speak on such topics only with a man she trusts. If you are not ready for a strong committed relationship like a wedding; you can mildly showcase you are only ready for a dating partner and nothing like marriage.
9. She is an Imitator of Your Body Language
When we like someone this normal for us to copy their physical and emotional behaviors. Precisely, if this old woman has a date and mate feeling for you, her imitating your acts is a clear way to make you feel more comfortable and friendly. It is a way to show you both are on the same page and can share feelings with each other.
It is a way to upsurge the perception of sexual attractiveness between both. Now she will not go for manly behavior like you but taking her wine sips when you take it, sitting pointing feet towards you, sharing similar choices or hobbies.
10. You got to see her appealing look
If the woman on your mind right now while reading this article is your co-worker and you want to learn if her extra friendly behavior is the sign of liking you. Get a chance and plan to meet out of the office just for lunch or coffee. If she says yes and comes to meet you in a sexy outfit she wants you to notice her curves.
It will not be difficult for you to find out if she really put an extra effort into her looks. She may appear as a different person including her brushed-up look and more extra energetic behavior. All these efforts are to match your energy and gain your attention.
Along with all the above-mentioned signs here is another must-read for you 10 Subtle but Obvious Signs that a Girl is Flirting with You! If you wonder why it is a must-read for you, every woman is different and has her unique way to impress her crush. If this old woman is attracted towards you she may take help or inspiration from young girls to chase you and try other ways to flirt with you. So we give you all we have!
Moving further when once you confirm her feelings towards you it is time to take a step ahead if you also like her. Or just step back and detach yourself from her to avoid the odd situation formed between you both. In case you are not sure about your own feelings give yourself time to develop them completely for her or vanish the infatuation with time.