Gone are days when researchers proved men cheat more than women. A study done in 2017 proved that more frequent cheating in love relationships is done by women. Is she more into shady text chat and unexplained outings without you? The whiff of another men cologne. What has brought you to this post?
Many might feel there are obvious signs to find out if your love of life is cheating on you. But same is not true, another study stated that women are prompt to find out about their cheating husbands or boyfriends.
Different people have different notions about cheating in a love relationship. Most commonly sexual intimacy is counted as the towering level of cheating. Here are the basic three types of cheating love partners tend to perform.
Physical cheating
If your spouse is involved in any kind of physical intimacy with anyone would count as physical cheating as the name suggest. Here right from physical touch, kissing, or sex everything is counted as cheating.
Emotional Cheating
Building a strong emotional bond with anyone outside of your love mate would be counted as emotional cheating. Typically, when one does it for emotional support relatively getting it from the primary relationship.
Physical cheating is easy to find out and confront in comparison to an emotional one as it grows gradually and could be easily manipulated into a friendzone.
Micro Cheating
As the name suggests it is a small act of cheating and it’s very common in today’s life among people using social media platforms to connect. Flirting through text messages, comments, or using any digital gesture to flirt with anyone while you are in a relationship.
Let`s dig deep down to “signs she’s cheating”
Man and women both could easily find out an unfaithful man in the relationship but struggled to ensure the same for women. Women are better at hiding it. So we will cover here a sure-shot sign to check if she is cheating or you are not trusting her enough.
1. She is glued to her phone
Today’s digital era keeps all of us glued to our cell phones for one or another reason. But if even in your wee time, she is busy texting someone and you do not know or have limited access to information about the receiver of her frequent messages. You need to know who this person is.
When a new attention seeker will be there in her life, you can see her spending lots of time texting with a smile on her face. This could be an unexplained relation ringing warning bells.
2. She isn`t a surprise lover anymore
She wants to know all most all details about your whereabouts but is not comfortable sharing her schedules in advance. Most of your outing plans are not working out because of her unavailability for no strong reason. She is keen to know your schedule to avoid chaos.
Respecting her privacy and giving her own space is very important for a healthy love relationship until she is not annoyed by your surprise visit to her or a last-minute date plan that turns into a fight.
If she is more frightened or disturbed by your unanticipated visit you must find out the reason.
3. She plays hide and seek with you
Unfulfilled promises, hiding details, change in plans and you find out a few untold truths becoming part of your love story is not a good sign. Being possessive about her devices and makes an effort to keep them away from your sight. She may change passwords or stop using them in front of you to make them unreachable for you.
Usually, lovers share most of the details about each other’s day plan so that they can spend more time together. And any schedule change details are also being shared.
4. She is detested on silly Reason
Rise in fights between you both for no reason or silly reason is a big sign of her disliking for you. This situation mostly occurs when she will be developing more strong feelings for the other guy.
Such frequent fights occur because you are being compared to her new attraction and you have no idea about it. Her new Mr. Perfect is difficult to compete with as you are clueless about the race.
5. Declining Physical Intimacy
She is not responding to your hugs, cuddles, and peck of kisses like before. As she develops a stronger emotional bond with the third person she is less likely to get involved in physical closeness with you.
Even the opposite of the above statement is also a sign of cheating when your partner is asking for significantly more sexual activities. It is a way to keep you satisfied and distracted from any doubt on her
6. Our Future Talks Turned into my Future Goals
Couples share some mutual goals and individual goals. A renowned clinical psychologist stated that “A major commitment makes it more difficult to pull out of a relationship quickly.” So if there is a significant shift in her future goals and most plans are just about her wants from life excusing you it’s a sign she is thinking in another way.
7. Sexier and appealing look for a casual meeting
Since you know how she dressed up for your date outings in the initial days of dating and how she dresses up for a girls’ outing. If you notice momentous changes in her way of getting ready where she puts efforts to look appealing but the occasion doesn’t demand. Be alert!
Additionally, if you find new lingerie and hot dresses in her cupboard but never on her body for a long time. She might be getting sassy for someone else.
8. She is not prioritizing you
She suddenly has a new hobby which keeps her occupied and it is quite opposite to your interest. We all have hobbies and we enjoy leisure time refreshing ourselves through them. But if she is prioritizing her hobby instead of spending quality time with you is not a good sign.
Here she is trying to maintain the distance and showing less interest which is a clear sign of cheating.
9. Impenetrable expenses/ Gifts
Exchange of gifts, frequent trips, hotel booking, and liquor purchase all this will need money. If you find unusual charges on her credit cards or she is flooded with gifts from someone, too much of purchase without a clear idea of the resource.
Huge cash withdrawals or huge shopping was ith unexplained reasons or resources is for sure a strong sign of your weak relationship.
10. look for changed body language
If she has a different body language specifically showing you closed signs may ensure your doubt. Maintaining physical distance in public and at home. Closed Body language like crossing her hands and not facing towards you.
Before she will be vocal about her new relation her body language scream louder about her lack of interest in you if you know how to read it.
Note: Maybe many above-mentioned signs she shows just as her natural behavior. To find out the truth about her suspicious behavior you need to look for instant and significant changes in her behavior without any solid reason.
Before confronting your partner on anything tries to analyze your own behavior as well. May be few reactions you get are because of your rigid nature. If so is the case you need to talk to her to sort out the situation. Here take the help of your friends who can genuinely give you a reality check over the whole situation.
Conclusion
Unfortunately, if you found most signs of cheating are present in your partner we are sorry for you. Time to step ahead and confront her to find out the depth of her new relationship and take a firm decision.
Depending on if you want to sort out the situation or just walk out of such a relationship love life. If your relationship is just suffering the monotony and she is only infatuated with someone you can try to work in such a situation. Proper attention on her and little care will be enough to pull her back.
On the other hand, if you do not want to continue the relationship it’s ok to let go of a person who has a cheating tendency in nature.
