“Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.” Albert Einstein. This quote states that every successful man is necessarily not a “man of value”. And you might have known many successful jerks who have everything except true admirers.
But if you are here to seek suggestions to work on leveling up yourself to be a valued person, this is the first trait of a valued man 🙂 Congratulations!
Are you wondering how is this possible to add new traits in you or what it takes to be a valued man? So we are here to help you to make you understand that “Success doesn’t come to you, you go to success”.
Let`s educate ourselves what are Qualities of a Good Man.
1. Carry a Problem Solving Attitude
As you landed upon this post in search of qualities of a good man similarly he will never avoid the situation or problem but be open to talk and introspect the whole situation to find a way out. No matter if the issue is a big or small problem
The man of good quality has a problem-solving attitude and keeps all happy, stress-free, and confident.
2. Leads a Balanced and happy life
We all have our struggles in balancing life. What to prioritize in life work, home, relationships future dreams? But a real man focuses on ensuring to lead a balanced life where he doesn’t mind rushing or even stepping back on a few plans to lead a content life.
Finding a balance in life keeps the mental, physical, and emotional health good and helps you to grow.
3. Possess a clear vision of life
A clear vision of life helps us to secure the future and work to achieve our goals. Everyone does not have this quality to join the dots and see the big picture of life. Most people go with the flow and lead a life on the other hand a man of quality has the ability to see beyond it.
To see the possibility of today and push the subordinate to work towards great possibilities in the future is a quality of a good man.
4. He is emotionally balanced
Emotionally balanced people know the art of creating a healthy relationship with empathy. He does not hold on to grudges or pain for longer and turn out to be a bitter man. A good man has the quality to accept the pain and let go of negative thoughts easily.
This quality is a little hard to obtain because you need to keep on working to attain all-round health stable. Mental, physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual.
5. He is a man of integrity
He has a set of rules in his life which he follows and never compromises on his ethical values. It’s a great trait not only personally for the man but for the organization he works for and the family he raises. These people are more promising and reliable.
Integrity makes them “a man of the word” and this is a leadership quality that helps you in your career strongly.
6. He has earned a confident personality
Confidence develops with many other traits like dedication, learning, and continuous efforts in building self-worth. And it’s a quality of a good man to know his own worth and acknowledge their own achievements.
Confident people do not hesitate to seek help if needed and admire others’ “least efforts” too. So they give a feel-good factor to friends and family.
7. He has an amicable aura
His personality is pleasing and his behavior is nice. He makes everyone comfortable and does not boast or brag. He appreciates others’ efforts and values hard work. People wanted to be around this man because he has an amicable aura.
Being pleasant, nice, and friendly to everyone is not an easy task, a few people have this quality and those who have are good men.
8. He is a Good Listener
A man of high quality knows the skill to pay attention to others’ opinions. He will make an effort to listen and understand others’ points of view, problems, or statements and then respond accordingly. They do not act on pre-notion but on fact and introspection.
Good listening is a highly valued skill that enhances understanding of tasks and strengthens the work /family bonds.
9. He is dedicated & committed
A high valued man is not afraid of hurdles or difficulties in life. His trait of dedication helps him to keep going and conquer the hardship of life. He is committed and stays true to his commitment which inculcates another quality of ownership.
Ownership helps a person widely in their career and the dedicated man tries his best to achieve his goals in life.
10. He is a Self-reliant Person
You can address a high valued man as “Sigma male” which means he is self-reliant and highly independent. These people manage most of the things by themselves only and least depend on anyone. Extreme self-reliance could have a negative effect.
Trust in own capabilities and judgments gives a boost to self-confidence and helps to lead a less complicated life.
We all are born with some traits/ qualities and a few are added later during our upbringing. The best thing about quality is they are achievable. Consciously or unconsciously we are affected by our surroundings, peer groups and bring changes in our behavior.
So if you wanted to major yourself on the scale of a “man of high value” little introspection can help here. You must find many qualities you already have and if you want to attain the remaining qualities just start working on the same.
How to inculcate high Qualities
I personally feel to inculcate good values sub-consciously in the brain, reading narratives is the best way. Here is the psychological fact that we all wanted to be a hero, and reading feeds your brain with information on the same.
Acceptance is the first way to achieve this goal to be a high-quality man. Work on yourself, surround yourself with high-quality people and consciously you need to put effort and keep on working to achieve any quality which you lack.