Interpreting a woman feeling is difficult in general and it becomes harder when your heart skips a beat every time she comes across you. You like her for sure but are unsure about her feelings for you. Does she feel equally attracted to you or do you have an unrequited attraction for her?
It is a common feel almost all males experience once we meet that cute sizzling diva, who acts always nice to us. Only being nice is not a clear “sign she wants you” it could be only because she considers you as a really good friend.
If you misread the signs from her and act opposite to her feeling maybe this can ruin the connection you both have.
Signs She Wants You to make a Move
It is true that dating is intricate specifically for those who lack experience. So to make the whole process of decoding the signs she wants you to make a move. We have decided to cover this post where we are sharing strong signs she is conveying her interest in you.
1. Sneak Peek in Your Personal Life
If your conversation has passed the phase of hobbies and favorite coffee flavors and she keeps on inquiring about your personal life. She is interested in you and maybe asking to see if you both have shared similar comforts. When she asks about your pets and family is a good sign.
Even you can try to ask your crush similar questions and see if they respond with extra excitement and provide you with a piece of detailed information. If yes you have a chance there; if not maybe you are knocking on the wrong door.
2. She Seeks\Gives Your Alone Time
You are clear on your feelings for her but not sure about hers try breaking the group and seek alone time with her. If a woman allows you some alone time by taking you away from your friends or leaving her group behind where she was chilling.
You both get to join for a round of drinks or to get the fresh air (if she allows you) just take this time to break the ice between the two of you. Asking a person questions or pretending to rub off something from her face. Notice her reaction and you may get a clear idea of her feelings for you.
3. You Got an Eye Lock With Her
Defiantly she is asking you to make a move if he holds an eye gaze for longer and deeper with you followed by a shy smile and blush skin. A longing look indicates she is paying attention to you and your talks which a women-only does for the man she wants (Unless you are in an argument with her or interviewing her).
Whenever next time she will hold a gaze on you, take it as an opportunity to respond with a long gaze, and maybe if the situation allows give her a compliment on the eyes. Or just ask the color of her eyes?
4. Her Friends Inquire about Your Interest in her
Have you ever asked a girl if she likes your friend without your friend’s consent, most probably answer is NO. If you like that shy girl who does not hold a longer eye gaze with you and does not inquire about your family but still there are chances that she like you back.
Her feelings are strong so she sent a friend to inquire and for sure wants you to make a move. This situation may be tricky to answer as here a third person is involved so if you are not sure about your feeling. Manipulate the answer with a compliment on nature or something very subtle.
5. She gets closer to you on your accidental touches
Neither your touches are accident nor her closeness! A tap on your shoulder, touching your hand as an appreciation of your witty jokes while laughing. All are strong signs of flirting which people use to show their interest in the other person. If you get these signs from her she is definitely into you.
If you share a nice bond with this “cutie pie” you like and find you can try it, just see if she is comfortable when you get close to her? Just sitting a little close or rubbing shoulders for a fraction of a second may be enough to see if she likes it or maintains distance. If so you need to back off.
Note: If she responds to your touches with a longer stay and a smile for sure you have a good chance here to get a positive reply from your crush.
6. She asks you to hang out
As we men struggle to find out about her feeling for us, women take more time to be assured about their own feeling for someone. That’s the reason men are more prompt in announcing their love towards and asking a woman for a date directly.
But women being shy rather take a safe side and will ask you to “hang out” with her friends in a bar or maybe at her apartment. It is her way to see if you are into her and if you both hang out together how you will make her feel.
Pro Tip: If it’s a 2nd or 3rd invite from her for you and you see in her eyes she really wants you to say yes, Before answering it just say “Ahh, just a hangout, or its a date? This may help you to get more clarity on her feeling for you.
7. Positive and Open Body Language
If she sends you follow-up messages to make sure you are in for the plan you might have strong chances here. If she trying to get you in the plan you are surely in her mind. Her text or call is a sure sign she is thinking about you. While you go to her appreciate this gesture of her and she made you feel special.
Now it is your call to make her feel really good around you to increase your chances and positive response to your move.
8. She Feels Safe, Relaxed, and Excited around you
When you hang out together if anything or anybody makes her uncomfortable she seeks your help or gets close to you as you are her savior. During the whole outing, she seems relaxed and is being herself with you more than anyone else. Her excitement is higher when she sees you or talks to you.
Here you just need to see if her comfort, relaxation, and excitement in augmented while she is with you in comparison with the others. If it is so you have a clear green sign if there is someone else who is getting a higher vibe than you, you got a competitor in she is single otherwise for sure she is already taken.
9. She depicts Expressions of jealousy
You might get a sarcastic statement from her when you are close to some other girl in your group. Or just admire any woman in front of her to see her reaction. If you notice this girl does not like it and shows any sign of jealousy.
If a girl likes you, it is normal that she may feel flimsy and scared that any other girl will get your attention. It is easy to test when you both are having fun in a group hang out.
10. Reciprocate positively to your flirt signs
Women are very clear when they do not like someone flirting with them and immediately show up negative body language. Crossed body language, straight face, and on-point talk if necessary (Official matter only). But it gets tricky for them if you give flirty signs and she does not dislike you but is not sure how much she likes you.
She will keep on playing like good friends or best buddies till she will be assured of her feeling for you. Most women want men to make a move so they start to reciprocate to your flirt signs. But her reaction will be mild and you need time and patience to read them.
What to do if many signs matches that she wants you
Stay calm! Yeah, it’s difficult for you as you are all excited to explore more with her but here is a pro tip waiting for you. Studies have proven that women do not fall in love quickly, men are more prone to fall in love at first sight and declare it too.
She may like to check out by you but the moment you touch her she will call you to pervert! You need to give her time and many reasons to like you back before you shoot her with a cupid arrow. Below mentioned tips will help you to make your way easy and have a higher rate of success.
- Acknowledge her presence, take her opinion on conversations going on.
- Apart from her look praise her behavior or decisions. (This show you are not just physically attracted)
- Find a common interest to keep the conversation on.
- Smiles when she talks like you find it really interesting to listen to her.
- Maintain eye contact if she feels too shy try making her comfortable by giving her some time. (STOP STARING)
- Imitate her body language but keep it all-natural not forced.
- Be chivalrous, open door for her or help her sitting by draggig chair but don’t overdo it.
- If you not comfertable in direct talks in intiial stage take help of social media.
- If she respond to your messages and seem prompt to reply, step ahead with a call.
- Give her all signs clear signs before ask her out for a date.
If you are very sure of your feeling and see a future with this girl is on your mind while reading the complete post, and you are lucky to find out most signs matches that she wants you to take a move hire a dating coach for assuring your win-win situation.