Love and attraction have their own languages and it is a hard row to hoe when you are unsure about her interest in you. You catch her fleeting look your way and she gets nervous at times around you. Are these the signs she likes you?
Similar signs could be seen if she is playing flirty, being extroverted (against her nature), or is simply unconcerned about your feelings. It is important to resolve this mystery and find out her true feelings for you as it will make the situation easy for both of you.
Top Secret Signs that She Likes You
Whether you have a crush and really wanted to know if you both share the same feelings for each other. Or do you just feel your female friend acting odd with you and wanted to sort out if she likes you? We will be covering below obvious signs to decode her feeling for you.
1. She is not hard to please
Women are hard to please when you want her, crave for her, or even have a crush on her and she knows it. She will pretend like “I don’t care” but it’s totally the opposite if she likes you. She laughs at your weirdest jokes and cares for almost everything.
If she is smiling and always stay happy around you that is a strong sign that she likes you. If her smiles get wider and reach her eyes while talking to you. She likes you for sure!
2. You caught her glancing at you
Eyes reflect our emotions in the most effective way. If you find something attractive you tend to see it time and again. Similarly, if you often caught her glancing at you with a smirk it’s an obvious sign that she likes you.
Furthermore, when you catch her glancing at you she gets uneasy and feels nervous. You can see her facial complexion changes. She is surely into you.
3. Open body Language
Pay attention to her body language there you might get more than one sign at a time to find out her true feelings for you. She will sit close and face you directly without keeping any hindrance in between. Open relaxing hands and feet pointing towards you.
The best way to decode her body language sign is to compare her behavior with other men and you. Upbringing and cultural values hugely affect the way to act so clearing the confusion is important.
4. Eyegaze is a strong sign she likes you
Eye contacts are the strongest way of non-verbal communication. Eyes depict a large influence on our social interests. If she maintains eye contact for a few seconds and when you look into her eyes she sheepishly looks down.
Maybe she stares back when you look into her eyes to show that she has an interest in you but similar behavior may come from a strong woman with leading qualities.
5. Hair paly /quick makeup fix
She gets conscious about her appearance if she keeps on fixing her hair around you. It is a strong sign that she cares how she looks in front of you and has a sexual attraction for you. Here her body language depicts that “she wants you to like what you looking at”.
An additional sign you can notice is a quick hair or makeup fix if she excuses herself for using the restroom.
6. You receive Long Text Messages
Women like to talk that is true but she picks a few to talk especially when it comes to text messages. She will invest her time to drop you long texts only if she wants a long conversation with you. Now it will not be applicable if the texts are official.
If her replies are longer than your texts it is a positive sign that she likes you and if her text is shorter so you need to hold on to your feelings.
7. Social Media connection
Has she added you on her all social handles? If yes it shows that she wants to be in touch everywhere. We all use different social platforms and have connected with people there. But if you notice your all friends are not connected on all of your channels.
If she connected everywhere and keeps on flashing on your phone screen times and again in the notification you both have a connection.
8. Keeps on bumping with you
It could be a playful hit on your side/back with her hand or elbow after you both share a giggle moment. Placing a hand on your arm is a strong sign of she has a connection with you. Keep on looking and joining the dots.
It can be the opposite if she is your well old friend and suddenly developed this feeling of liking you and may feel hesitant to touch you.
9. You get her Undivided attention
Women are a pro at making priorities and trust me if she is into you you can easily find out that you get undivided attention from her. She will memorize the tiny details you shared with her. If you feel you get a different treatment (in a positive manner of course) from her recently she may like you.
Her undivided attention is a strong sign for you, it’s kind of she is providing you with quality time instead of quantity of hours.
10. She is comfy talking about personal/Intimate topics
That could be similar to your BFF yet women take their own time and pace to get into personal talks and share intimate info. If recently she started sharing such information and keeps on doing the same you hold a special place in her heart.
Women know well to set boundaries and make it very obvious to the receiver as well. So if she allows you to peep into her personal life. It is a very strong sign.
The list of signs to find out if she likes you is really long apart from the above-mentioned points if she drags on conversations with you. Reschedule and meet she couldn’t make when you offered or seeks your assistance every now and then you both have a special bond for sure.
Bonus Tips:
- Liking for you initially is very confusing for her also, she is excited, confused, and anxious whenever faces you. Making her comfortable will help her to express it soon or later.
- If you planning to ask her directly she may refrain at once cause of her uncertain feelings so keep complimenting her and wait for the right time.
- Even if you feel she likes you do not show your desperation to her it may make her uneasy. If her feeling is to get stronger with time, it’s worth spending your energy on her.